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Comment by Vernon on September 28, 2009 at 8:56pm

I have filed with the county court, but I have little money for a lawyer, so I have to do this myself, visitation has not been set up yet. And she has called the police on me 3 times now for harassment, I got a call from her just tonight because a friend from a church we had attended together talked to her, and the words were not kind, so of course my wife was mad at me.

Comment by cece on September 27, 2009 at 7:08pm

Vernon,
I am glad to pray for you and your family. You posted on September 4th about your wife. Again I recommend you get ahold of the court clerk or an attorney and file for visitation, by law you have a right to see your children. The court will give you this but you have to do your part and file for it. Besides seeing your children this will protect you against any accusations of harassement in your attempts to talk with your children. You have rights and in these type situations you have to exercise them if you want to see your children.
God bless you.

Comment by Vernon on September 27, 2009 at 5:16pm

Please pray for my family, my wife and kids left me, I am disabled with back problems, pain is an everyday thing. My wife left and took my kids away, will not let them talk to me, I call and ask to talk to them, she calls the police and says I'm harassing her, I know my son is very depressed over not having me in his life, if it were up to him and probably my daughter too they would rather live with daddy, if it weren't for my Lexapro I would crying continuously. If this were a typical separation it would not be so bad, I mean most disgruntled parenst at least keep the children out of it, not her, she takes it to a personal level and involves the children, but what she doesn't realize is how much she hurts them too.

Comment by MERRY TILLMAN on September 27, 2009 at 12:19pm

Thanks Kathy, Im glad to also hear that things are looking up for you as well.....I will continue to pray for you & thanks for being a friend. Merry

Comment by cece on September 26, 2009 at 7:05pm

Merry,

Good to hear the gooood news! I am feeling better these days also. I
went on Celexa an anti depressant that helped me in the past with no
side effects...I have terrible anxiety and fear and this medication has
made a big difference in these symptoms. I am thankful! God bless,
Kathy

Comment by MERRY TILLMAN on September 26, 2009 at 5:54pm

Just wanted to praise the lord, things are starting to look up for me....on Sept. 20th I rededicated my life to the lord and was baptized, and on the 22nd I started my new job. Im not saying that everything is back on track but you know what for the first time in a very long time I am starting to see some sunshine in this storm that I have been fighting, nd you know what it feels good......I know that I still have some battle to go but you know what with GOD in my corner how can I go wrong.....THANKS for letting me share ;-}

Comment by cece on September 5, 2009 at 5:31pm

Vernon,

If you are legally married this is the only way she can take the kids without your knowledge. If you are divorced this is custodial interference. In the event you
are married the very first thing you need to do is get into court and get visitation
this is the only legal avenue you have at this time to protect your interest in the
children as far as knowing where they are, who they are with and having visitation time with them. If you can not afford an attorney go to the court clerk and ask for the court laison who can explain matters to you and provide you with the forms so you can file for a court date. These things are expedited quickly because of your situation, with her taking them without your knowledge.
(Technically she can take them and call it physical custody but she still has to answer to the court and be filing for a divorce)
All parents have visitation rights until it is proved they are a jeopardy to the well being of the children. If you feel she is unstable and making bad choices for her children that is why I suggested Child Protective Services if you feel your children are in danger or being taken out of state.
You need to get into court to stablize the situation and let your children
know you are here for them.
Hope this helps,
kathy

Comment by Vernon on September 5, 2009 at 5:22pm

Well according to the law, she is not breaking any, I asked. The only action I can take is get some legal help and file a restraining order, and get the kids back in this stable home. It would only be kidnapping if a non parent took them, she is the mother and has every right under the law to have them, until the law makes such judgment that she is not fit to have them. Yes I have been through this before and unfortunately the law is not fair to fathers.

Comment by cece on September 5, 2009 at 2:45pm

IS OF THE ESSENCE The longer you let her be gone without notice and with the children the less likely you will see them again...if this is the 2nd time she has done this the likelihood of not hearing from them is much greater THIS IS
NOT SOMETHING YOU CAN HANDLE ON YOUR OWN
THIS IS VERY SERIOUS
You need to talk to friends and family IMMEDIATELY if you have not
done so and you need to take action...you need to think of your
children
Their mother is not using good judgement in breaking the law,
this could be considered kidnapping. YOU NEED TO ACT
NOW BEFORE IT COMES TO THAT

PLEASE PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN.

GOD WILL HELP U AS U ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING
TO PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN
THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW AND SEE THEIR FATHER!

let me know, cece

Comment by cece on September 5, 2009 at 2:41pm

Vernon,

I pray that Jesus will intervene and protect you and your children and make
your wife know the error of her way of responding to her situation!

First do you have family or friends who are helping you? You need a good support system. You said you are disabled from a back injury, how long
has this been going on....are the fusions healed and how are you doing
with them. Are you gettting good medical care for your condition? Is
your pain being managed?

You say you need a job...are you able to work...do you have an L and I claim or are you in the process of applying for social security benefits.

Irregardless your wife or exwife can not legally take your children away from you.
What she has done is against the law. Have you contacted Child Protective
Services or the police, this is imperative IMMEDIATELY AS TIME

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