After 1 failed marriage, and the second one disclosed after 16 yr with sexual addiction, I have realized that I have been a co-dependant, and need to stick to my boundaries this time for myself!!!!!!!! It has been very hard, I am a giver not a tak...
What are boundaries? Boundaries are guidelines or Iimits you must set in order to live and love well. A relationship without God-honoring boundaries is a relationship destined for chaos, frustration, and disappointment.
Spring:
It has been a long, hard battle to come to acceptance with going against the flow here in the Bible belt. The doctrines of misogyny that are taught in the church make me furious.
I have recently boiled it down to this: misogyny is essent...
Trisha: I am proud of you for rethinking your position of submitting to a controlling and dominant man.
I understand, I also feel guilty also taking time for myself and taking time to respond on this forum. We have our own business and there is s...
Wow. I hear a lot of pain in this message. I am so sorry that you are hurting. I have also felt that pain!
Here is my take on all of it: the two become one. Neither is above the other. In fact, some authors (like the Eldredges in Captivating) mak...
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I've just read the last few entries concerning the age old male dominant view. And this very issue has been the heart of just what I'm going through in my life. I've always believed as a wife I was Just to give in to my hubby's demands that was...
Deborah:
I think it's great that you and your husband have found what works for you guys!! Many couples have also found that that particular paradigm works well for them. Usually it's when both partners are loving and caring naturally. You are ri...
Wow... sounds like you both have put quite a twist on the standard most Christian churches teach. Quite radical indeed. When I first read all this stuff, I must admit I was very unsettled and confused. It just seems so adverse to what Ive been tau...