Wow, Cara, I feel for you for all that you are dealing with. I also was wondering if you were in any recovery or support type groups. Your ex is not the only one that needs that. Being in Celebrate Recovery, as mentioned earlier, or some other 12-...
Hi, Scott; I like the advice you gave Cara. I'm new to this and would welcome information on how to locate a Newlife counselor in the state of Massachusetts. My husband is addicted to porn, phone sex, etc. He has acknowledged his problem, but it i...
This is excellent advise and the Good Lord has shown me my answer. He came to visit us over last weekend and it went very very well. However, when he returned home he was extrememly depressed and controlling. I have an extremely rare disease which...
I agree with Lew. He kind of has to earn his way back into your life, but his actions, not at all by his words. Over a good ling time since he was "extremely abusive". That kind of behavior doesn't go away because he's running races. So, ask him w...
Dear Cara, I can relate to the struggle between the two options. There are times when I couldn't discern which way God would have me choose. One thing that you did not mention was whether your ex has a relationship with Christ. This could be the i...
By the way... For clarification's sake. I wasn't abusive in the sense of hurting someone by force.. I meant only that I with held my affection because of some Trust issues with ex.
Wel ... too late on number one .. I have slept with my ex ( the last time we saw eachother) This broke my vow of celibacy which I had not broken for nearly a year.. A big step for me.
Secondly, I have had to learn the hard way that while they may...
Thanks Scott... I don't have any good friends really. I just moved to Richfield Utah and am involved in an Assembly of God church but noone has any advise. They simply say.. go to God. Yes, God does answer prayers and gives us direction for His wi...
good morning Cara,
I know about divorce ..I was divorced and with three kids for two years.......but, i am remarried now...You said your ex husband was extremely abusive ? So He hit you ? has recently come back in our lives and is paying for half...
Having been the husband in the same situation: (here is some advice)
#1 Make sure that you have self respect and make sure that your ex respects you = have some dignity, don't sleep with your ex. Make him be your friend first. God is a God of rec...
Hello friends in Christ.
I am currently divorced with two young chidren. My ex husband was extremely abusive and up until very recently we had no contact for two years nor did he with the children. He has recently come back in our lives and is pa...
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