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Keith,
After reading this and all the comments, I saw one person who said "your kids don't need this" and I thought, he does not have kids. But I did go back and look, and sure enough you mentioned them once in the beginning. Opps, my fault for not…
I would suggest a simple card with warm wishes, since they are friends, but no gift. Save the gifts for birthdays and any babies that come along. You have the right not to agree with their choice, but if they are friends of yours, at least acknowled…
CORRECTION: I mean God wants to heal him from these feelings, that are not a sin yet if he has not acted out on them.
Wendy, excuse me, but if you are going to be a Chrsitian, you need to be aware of what the bible says about homosexuality. You would not tell a pediphile struggling with his problem to embrace who he was and accept it would you? Or how about an adul…
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- At 4:14pm on June 7, 2009,
Charlene said…
- Elise,are you far away from any family?How about co-workers for friends? I feel into a trap of thinking "I don't have anyone but him" but i was over looking the obvious people in my life as friends , and not valuing their contribution in my life. . If you feel like you want to remain friends with him, make sure that you only see him somewhere where there are other people around and tell him you don't feel strong enough to see him alone. Could it be that you are just uneasy telling others about what you have done and so you are "all alone?" I am not pointing a finger anywhere but back at myself, been there, done that. I will be praying for solutions for you, it is very hard to go backwards after you went forward. Only you can get peace with God by following the leading of His Holy Spirit. Take care
- At 7:10pm on June 6, 2009,
Elise said…
- the relationship is wrong because it is of sexual nature. We thought we were going to get married and i was far from God so everything i had believed in before went out the window. And I've been living like a yo yo ever since it seems. I'm trying to hold on to the great friendship we had in the first place while trying to get rid of the other junk but i dont think it is possible. I know I need to get away but i know no one else. I have no one to turn to or hang out with, so I get bored or desperate and I return back to him. And he is kind so its not like he is abusive or anything its just unhealthy. So ya. Thanks for commenting
- At 5:39am on March 19, 2009,
Mark said… - She was not raped by the homeless boyfriend, she was willingly participating and the condom supposedly broke leading to pregnancy.--sorry to be so graphic.
- At 1:47pm on November 19, 2008,
kathy said… - As counselors we call it placating, I understand it as how people typically feel comfortable talking about "someone elses" problems rather their own.
When we choose to deal with our own issues we can speak for our
own feelings but not for another. May this make more sense for
you. Kathy
- At 1:45pm on November 19, 2008,
kathy said…
- The point I was making was in reference to your making a judgement called based on your own lack of experience. I was asking you to qualify your statement. Let me say that it is common when folks share or admit to
having an issue to first minimize their problem by maximizing anothers.
Kathy
- At 1:40pm on November 19, 2008,
kathy said…
- Charlene, I do not know what you are meaning to say here. Your comments did not offend me. Kathy
- At 8:53am on November 19, 2008,
kathy said…
- Charlene
You say that you think if someone was abused as a child they would
have a harder time getting over things and next that you were not
abused as a child? I am wondering how you can draw
this conclusion if indeed you were did not experience
abuse, what do you use to measure your judgement?
And why would you want someone to feel worse
if they were abused and had a harder time, why
would you want to say this?
Kathy
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