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I just got home from the New Life Weekend - what a life changing event. My group knew we were a group of "divine appointment" and Alisa our counselor was truly awesome. Blessings to all.
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- At 9:48am on September 21, 2009,
Tom D said… - Juile,
Im so happy to see you recieved alot from the weekend. I haven't seen you in quite sometime, but think of you. Hoping and Praying you are healing, and things are well!
- At 2:40am on August 18, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- praying for you this month especially. Geez, this grieving stuff sucks! May God be with you and know that at least there is one person in the universe who knows exactly how you feel. idk if that helps you, but it makes me feel better and not as alone. God Bless!
- At 7:53pm on July 28, 2009,
Jacki said…
- HI Julie just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you and praying for you. Do you have a good help with your grief process? What can I pray for you? lot of love and hugs Jacki
- At 8:18pm on June 3, 2009,
Jacki said…
- Greetings Julie just wanted you to know that I am still praying for you!!! hope that you are being good to yourself---- Big Hugs, Jacki
- At 4:47am on February 25, 2009,
Jacki said…
- Hi Julie just thinking of you and praying for you and your family- hope that you are well- or at least being in the self care mood-be good to yourself-God loves you and may His presence be real to you. Your sister in Christ- hugs and prayers, Jacki
- At 1:32pm on February 16, 2009,
Emily said… - Hi Julie,
I haven't seen you for awhile. I hope and pray you are doing well!! Have a blessed day!!
- At 8:54pm on February 6, 2009,
Tom D said…
- Thinking of you, and praying you are well!
- At 7:43pm on February 1, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- Hey girl. Word re: never thinking your kids will take that route. I'm sure your son was a wonderful boy like mine was -- the last human being alive I would have seen in that situation in my mind just five years ago! I like the idea of the fund. I was thinking of a fund for people to pay for burial -- what a shock to my system that was! My credit card companies love me! Also, I thought it might be worth mentioning Teen Challenge. I don't know much about them, but Third Day endorses -- as does Sallie Culbreth (long story) and we passed out some of their brochures to the druggies at my son's funeral service. Begging your pardon. No disrespect intended. I mean, to the folks struggling with substance abuse. I was hoping that at least one person would find the courage to make a decision to get help. It's like, having these issues in your own family really changes your perspective -- I feel much more willing to look at people like people and not like some "joke" you see on TV. Well, don't have much else to share at the moment. I'm moving forward with God's Holy Spirit living on the inside of me. I have my days. We'll get together one of these days. What a team, eh?
Love love,
K
- At 7:47am on January 26, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- Hi, Jules!
Nice to hear from you. I found a counselor at the new church we are attending in addition to the counselor I've been talking to for a while. At this point, all of it is costing me nothing. I don't have money to pay for this stuff, so I can relate.
I think there's a lot to be said for taking a break -- even from the grieving process! Sometimes, it's restful just to plod along at work and do the basic survival stuff of daily life. I look at grieving like most anything else in life, if we spend enough time at Jesus' feet, healing will naturally take place. And...good news...Jesus doesn't charge us money to be with Him! Don't worry about anything...or anyone. You need rest. That's it. Socializing is not your current responsibility. Resting is. You're doing good. Let the Holy Spirit lead you in your daily decisions about what to do and what to cut loose. I wish you weren't going through this. I wish I wasn't either, but we just have to do the best we can with what we have. And, frankly, at this moment, if I feel like eating a little junk food or not working on my weight, etc., that's just the way it is right now.
Girl, we'll get through this, and when we do, let's co-op on a book and make a million bucks! Interested?
God's Biggest Blessings to you today.
Love and Prayers,
Kellie
- At 5:38am on January 19, 2009,
Jacki said…
- Hi Julie- thank so much for taking the time to check in on me!! enjoy your day! God bless and prayers to you! May your feel the presence of our Lord for He loves you & me! Jacki
- At 8:11am on January 18, 2009,
Kate Dodge said… - I stumbled upon your page Julie. Your son was born 7 weeks before mine...My son Chris was born on Aug. 25th and he has autism, i couldn't imagine living without him, and my heart renders to your loss.
Here is a quote which after 4 years still holds me tight whenever I have to adjust to change/endings....
"all endings are really beginnings. we simply don't know it yet."
I firmly know the Lord has plans for you and John again and although separaion is the inevitable right now....the reunion and gift come later.
Have a lighter heart and may the love of GOD console you in each and every tear :)
Kate/Chicago
- At 9:03am on January 16, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- Hey, Girl! So that's what all that gritty stuff is that I keep having to dig out of my ears and nostrils! Sand! Huh! Well, I can totally relate on the whole "not in the mood to totally engage in life" thing. I have spoken with my counselor twice this month, and it has been really good. She helps me realize that I think I'm some kind of super-chick and that I should be able to just do everything when really what I need right now (because I actually am doing a lot of stuff I can't really stop doing) is REST. She always reminds me of Matthew 11:28 -- I have it on the bathroom wall, so it isn't really that difficult to bring to mind daily. Come to Him, all who are weary and heavy laden. She stops and says, "Is that you, Kellie? Are you weary? Heavy laden?" My sheepish reply...."Uh....yeah!" The amplified version is so clear. "28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden and overburdened, and I will cause you to rest. [I will [a]ease and relieve and [b]refresh [c]your souls.]" Suddenly, things start becoming clearer. The one and the only thing I need besides food, clothing, and shelter is rest for my soul. This may be the toughest fight I have on my hands -- just to accept that and allow myself to do that. I know that if I do not, there is a very bleak future ahead for me. So, I think the sand is exactly where we need to be for a season!
God's Best to You and the kids, etc.
One Day, One Moment, At a Time
Kellie
- At 2:31pm on January 10, 2009,
Jacki said…
- Hi Julie just checking in on you...wanted you to know that I have been praying for you loss and the pain of it all. Hope that you are well or at least honest God Bless YSIC Jacki
- At 4:21am on January 7, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- I read your last two comments on my page after I sent the last one, so this one will seem more relevant. I am SO SORRY to hear about your bosses son's girlfriend. That is horrible news, and I'm deeply saddened for them and for you as well. I cannot imagine that scenario. I think there is more need than ever these days to delve deeper into the Word and continue to concentrate our minds on God's sovereignty. That has been my biggest challenge in my deep pain. I just have to keep meditating on that thought, that God truly is in control even though my humanity screams otherwise.
As for the stone, they have a temporary stone placed that, from a distance, looks like all the others. We placed him (and subsequently purchased our own plots beside him) in a "discount" cemetery. All the stones are the kind that they can mow straight over, so they are pretty identical in material and marble, etc. I was unaware that, even though I had signed a credit contract, the permanent personalized stone actually would not be fashioned and placed until after the contract was fulfilled. Makes sense, but I'm thinking it's something like a two or three year contract. Even that cost nearly $2400 with the extra plots for Dave and me. Actually, there was a two-for-one deal on the plots, so we bought four. They said we could sell one if we didn't use it, and we also can double-inter if, God forbid, our seed is wiped from the earth entirely. I hope the Lord comes back, and they can keep their empty graves!
The temp stone has a vase on it, which was kind of nice for the one visit when we did take about three bouquets out; but the one I chose for forever will not -- I didn't think I needed to add "grave maintenance" to my list of regular activities. Fact is, I've just been the one time -- on his birthday (Nov. 8). We nearly froze! Next time I have a kid, I'll choose a summer month just in case! Well, pardon the tongue in cheek attempt at levity. It's how I deal.
God Bless!!!! We keep rolling, but at least we have someplace wonderful that we will eventually end up! Some days, I can hardly wait.
K
- At 7:55pm on January 6, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- Julie,
Thoughts and prayers of you tonight. May God grant you peace and healing. Light for the next step of your journey.
Kellie
- At 8:16pm on January 3, 2009,
kelliealexander said…
- Hi, Sweetie. I'm thinking of you and praying for you tonight. Let us know how you're doing. I heard a teaching on the 1st that really stuck with me. He said, we get stuck when we think of this as our harvest when it's really just our seed. BIG SQUEEZE!
Kellie
- At 11:32am on December 22, 2008,
kelliealexander said…
- Hey, Babe! Not so LOL, but Anthony's headstone is not paid for yet! I wonder what people with no credit cards do?
Thanks for sharing about your tree decorating with your daughter. My heart aches for you two, and I know exactly what you're going through -- sort of. You're precious and a blessing to my heart. We'll get through it, one day -- sometimes one hour -- at a time.
God Bless and keep in touch!
Kellie
- At 9:47pm on December 21, 2008,
Drum said… - Hang in there! God loves you and so do I! May the Lord fill your heart with His presence.
- At 3:50pm on December 21, 2008,
kelliealexander said…
- Hi, Babe! I know. It's a super rough week. Hang in there. I'm thinking about and praying for you.
God Bless!
Kellie
- At 1:50pm on December 15, 2008,
Shelly said… - Julie....Just wanted to say helloo...and that I was thinking of you and praying for you!!! God Bless :D
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Update
To all my friends at New Life:
I apologize for my long absence from New Life - I guess I have just been sticking my head in the sand and letting life's challenges take over my life. Hopefully I am back, still grieving the loss of my son, but now I have compounded that with using food to comfort me. I have gained 30 pounds in the 6 months since he died!
I have missed all my dear friends here and have thought of you often. Thanks for your prayers, love and support through this difficult time. I… Continue
I apologize for my long absence from New Life - I guess I have just been sticking my head in the sand and letting life's challenges take over my life. Hopefully I am back, still grieving the loss of my son, but now I have compounded that with using food to comfort me. I have gained 30 pounds in the 6 months since he died!
I have missed all my dear friends here and have thought of you often. Thanks for your prayers, love and support through this difficult time. I… Continue
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Connect with other Grieving Parents and those Struggling with weight loss
To my brothers & sisters in Christ -
I would love to connect with other parents grieving the loss of a child. I lost my 22 year old son - John - September 29th, after 8 days in the Cardiac ICU. He was brought to the hospital unconscious - and never regained consciousness. I thought I was dealing with things well until the last several weeks. I guess I must have still been in shock and now reality is unavoidable. This is the most painful thing I have ever experienced. I cry for hours each da… Continue
I would love to connect with other parents grieving the loss of a child. I lost my 22 year old son - John - September 29th, after 8 days in the Cardiac ICU. He was brought to the hospital unconscious - and never regained consciousness. I thought I was dealing with things well until the last several weeks. I guess I must have still been in shock and now reality is unavoidable. This is the most painful thing I have ever experienced. I cry for hours each da… Continue
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