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How do I stay married to someone I've never loved?
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Started this discussion. Last reply by scott Jul 22.
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Jonny,
there is a good book " Love Dare" In that book it will teach you how to love your wife. We learn to love people when we get Love from God to love our wife with good and bad we are all broken people ..I think your looking a feeling but love...
I am in the same boat, however, I am the wife. I actually did find another lover but the guilt made me confess to my husband. I am not sure what to do either. I feel as hopeless as you do. We also have 3 kids together so it makes it harder to brea...
Jonny, I hope that you are still trying! Please know, love is not a feeling, it is a choice! God has called you to lover her because she is your wife. He does not ask us to do anything that we can not do and that He will not enable us to do! I ask...
Is it the only option? Recall the scripture, "BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD". Have you tried to here God's will in this? Many men have stood where you are today. All have chosen to either stay or go, and reaped the rewards or suffered the conseq...
Well things are still not good. I cant help but feel like I want to run away every single day. Just yesterday we had an issue with sex and I was sumply not into it at all. I have absolutely NO desire for it. None at all. Everyday I feel like Im no...
So Jonny, how is it going?
Please accept my apologies. The authors of the above mentioned books "Every Woman's Marriage" and "Every Man's Marriage" are Shannon and Greg Ethridge. Stephen Arterburn has a great many good books, of which I could recommend, but I wish to give c...
Hi,
Perhaps instead of praying to "love" her, just pray for him to guide you both. Love is a choice we all make, marriage is an endless change and you are certainly not alone in this. There are several things you can do to improve this situation.....
P.S. You said..."I want to love someone with all my being...."
According to the Bible, there is only One person out there for this to be possible successfully. All others will leave you empty on the inside. There is only one logical choice. If yo...
Often time we look to people to fill our Christ sized hole in our heart. Jonny the good news is...you are not alone. Your words are actually quite common and thank God we are not left without answers and direction. There are a couple of things tha...
Hi Jonny, I think there are more married people in your shoes at one time or another than you think, and there is hope. Your desperation to flee, and thinking of a fantasy woman in the meantime are two great obstacles to you finding contentment in...
Hi Jonny. My heart goes out to you because I can hear the desperation. Where you are is a very hard place, especially because you started off in this way. Don't loose hope though. First, love is a choice. Most couples do come to this realization a...
I married her because we got along very well and we had a lot in common. We agreed on a lot of issues and were very like minded but theres one problem.... I never loved her. I figured that I would grow to love her but its been almost 3 years since...
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- At 2:13pm on June 22, 2009,
kathy said…
- Hey Jonny, hope you had a more uplifting weekend.
This week, before you leave the house in the morning (or before she leaves),
pause to touch her hand (or shoulder) and wish her a 'good day'.
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