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Dear Spring,
You hit it right on the money...Again, Thank You.
I do need to practice. I feel my arms want to become noodles right now, just thinking about how much courage it takes to confront; it's confrontation anxiety...My union rep (from work...
Spring,
Thank you for your acknowledgement. My husband was there because I asked him to; I did not want to be alone with my brother; he is explosive and manipulative, so I think he allowed me to talk because my husband was present. That is all my ...
I made a mistake. I hate confrontation, I think it's because I don't do it well. "Boundaries face to face" is somewhere in my book collection; I have not completed it; I should have:
I confronted my brother about his behavior. My husband was there...
Welcome, brian.
you may start a new conversation, or comment on others'...feel free to share what you think about boundaries, or if there is a struggle with understanding boundaries...I sure as heck am struggling, so that's why i'm here. Quite bus...
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- At 9:26pm on August 31, 2009,
MrsM said…
- House update: We didn't get it. It sold above our range and we think it was over priced...life goes on.
- At 9:40pm on June 23, 2009,
MrsM said…
- COOL THING GOD DID:
Today, listening to new life live, steve said to write down what God does in our lives, because we often forget. So here is one:
We are looking to buy our first house (for over two months now). The very first house we went to view, my husband fell in love with. It was OK, but the neighborhood is not.
So we made an offer; but it was a "back-up" offer, meaning, someone else had beat us to the bid.
Our broker, bless her heart, kept showing us houses, but we always compared it to the one we liked; she kept telling us to forget about that house, because it was gone! It was on escrow, so we had to forget about it.
Lo, and behold, it is back on the market!! We thank God for giving us this second opportunity to make a stronger bid on the house that my husband sooo much liked... Our broker said the house was long gone, but God said something different :)
I don't know if we'll get our offer accepted, but I'll keep you posted.
- At 9:34pm on June 23, 2009,
MrsM said…
- So my pastor's wife came to me and we talked about what had been going on... her husband, pastor, told her about the letter i wrote to him. So her behavior was directly linked to her finding out i blew the whistle on her.
In her eyes, I did this maliciously. I assured her I did not. I asked her to forgive me for handling the matter as I did. I should have gone to her intead. However, she insists that the conversation she had with the person whom she "confessed" to was not a confession, but that she was confiding in her that she got raped...(Her husband does not really believe her, so their marriage is on the rocks, yet again).
So after the confrontation, she confirmed if things were OK between us; however, I had nothing against her, and I assured her that I never had any bad feelings against her. I also gave her my opinion about the third party (the one she told this incident in question to): This lady has nothing against her either; and she did not do this out of malicious feelings. I was the one that came to her to ask her if the rumor I had heard was indeed something she herself had witnessed.
So fine, we forgave eachother; however, two sundays ago, the third party came down to our church and had a meeting with pastor. i don't know what happened, nor what was said. What I do know is that my pastor's wife was crying sunday night.
Reader, if you feel the burden, pray in favor of my pastor and his wife.
- At 4:56pm on January 11, 2009,
MrsM said…
- I am not really sure if there is a group to post this on, so I'll just post it here. I am feeling bullied, or attempts to being bullied, or maybe it is retaliation:
I "blew the whistle" on my pastor's wife. She had an affair 5 years ago. She told one person, but was un-repentant. I just found out a few months ago. I did what i sincerely thought was the right thing to do: I told her husband, my pastor.
It is now a few months later, and I am just noticing that my pastor's wife may be hurt by my actions. I do not know if I should ask her if she has a problem with me. I want to wait for a more overt reaction on her part.
Right now, she just sits front and center when I lecture at church. Something she did not do until very recently. Her latest comments were about being hurt and taking things to God.
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