Carolyn, I want to add my condolences and to encourage you to take the time to grieve your loss and allow others to be there for you.. Things were tough at the end for you. I pray that the sweet arms of Jesus give you comfort. Kathy
At least this cloud has a silver lining! What? you ask. Well, I am so thankful that you have insurance that covers the financial part. Being from Canada, we take it for granted that we have access to all these health care needs with no outstanding...
Thank you Kathy. He actually went online and found something called 3X or X3 orwww.xxxchurch.com and registered his laptop computer on there so that if he were to get on a website he isn't supposed to be on it will automatically send me an e-mail to let me know. He says that he is definitely never going to do anything like that again but, I have to wonder if he will or not because it was just this March that he went into one of those e-mails to check it. I also know what everyone says about addicts and cheaters which is "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I am hoping that he is telling me everything that he had done and will continue to tell me if something else pops into his head about another e-mail account or something he may still have but, had forgotten about. Thank you so much Kathy. It does help to let it out in the open for me and I really appreciate your feedback.
Thank you Kathy. I joined because I need Jesus in my life. Our family hasn't been to church in about 3 years or more & we were going regularly, even taking classes at night but, we just pushed him to the side. I was saved in 2003 or 2004 but, have lost my way and it is really showing in our marriage, our children, and just dealing with life in general. We even almost had to foreclosure on our house about 3 or 4 weeks ago but, I knew that He would pull us through. I have also just found out around the same time that my husband has been addicted to porn for about 6 years or more. He has hardly ever been there for me when I needed him including when my Godmother and Uncle died in the same year amongst other things. I keep finding things online with him on there that are not pleasant as in pictures from the waist down on about 6 websites so far. Also, he confessed that he also chatted with people online and watched people do nasty things on webcam as well as performing for themas they watched. I had always felt like there was something going on and have asked him if he had been seeing someone or even chatting with someone online or anything but, he always got upset and accused me of being paranoid or stupid or whatever else he could come up with. I feel like I have been living a lie for all these 13 years that we have been married. We had been doing well for the past year or so I thought. How I found out about these things was he was checking his e-mails from work on his blackberry and I was playingly asking what he was reading and I snagged the blackberry from him. I started looking at all his applications and found one for a G-mail that I had not a clue that he had created and came to find out that-that wasn't the only Alias e-mail account he has. Needless to say, I am shocked, confused, sad and whatever else you can think of. I am not sure what to do because we have kids that are young. I am afraid that if I stay with him that he will only keep doing these things but, I am afraid that if I don't take the boys and leave him or have him leave us then, I am doing an un-justice to my boys. I do not want them growing up in a household where the mother just lets the husband walk all over her and, that is exactly what has been happening. He has always been very crass and makes jokes at my expense in front of the boys and he has also been very rude to the boys. I am sorry I have rambled on but, this stuff is eating me alive and I do not know what else to do. Thank you Kathy.
Hi Kathy, All you should have to do is click on it and up will pop a window with everyone already there. Did you try that?
I got in there just now with no problems. But I am not really a chatter person, so not sure how often I'll be there.
Hi Kathy! I haven't heard anyone's personal opinion on Time Traveler's Wife, but I know my sister wouldn't go see it in the theater with me because her friends told her they bawled at the end of the movie. She didn't want to come out of the theater crying, so she said she'll wait until it comes out on video. I want to go see it but haven't had the money lately. If I do see it I'll definitely be sure to tell you how it was!
Thnak you for your comments to me a couple of months agao on the depression forum. I am sorry this is so late. I have been struggling lately. Thank you for taking hte time to write a response to me.
I also had a problem with the strip show. I found something very interesting to dig for in my purse during that part of the show ;). I didn't really have an interest in My Sister's Keeper but if it's good I'll go and see it. What about The Time Traveler's Wife? Are you going to see that?